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What if your career isn’t stalled because of your skills?

May 06, 2025
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🧠 What if your career isn’t stalled because of your skills, but because you’ve been too good at playing by the rules?


🔄 The Shift:
Let’s stop blaming "skills gaps" for stalled careers. It’s an easy narrative—neat, measurable, and comfortably outside our control. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: most career stagnation isn’t about capability.

It’s about context.

Your career might be stuck not because you’re unqualified, but because you’re invisible. Because you're doing excellent work on the wrong priorities. Because you're waiting for a manager to notice instead of designing your next move.

Leaders don’t get promoted solely on merit—they move up through visibility, alignment, and strategy. Yet too many high-performing professionals stay stuck doing "important but non-promotable" work, trapped by loyalty, perfectionism, or a culture that rewards compliance more than courage.


🛠️ Try This:

Review the top 10 non-skill-related reasons careers stall (weak networks, misaligned work, lack of visibility, poor leadership support, etc.). Rank how much each one applies to your current role on a scale from 1 (not at all) to 5 (very true).
Then ask yourself:

  • What are 1–2 high-ranking items I’ve tolerated for too long?

  • If these aren’t skill issues—why have I accepted them as immovable?

Your stagnation may not require more training. It may require more truth.


🧭 One Recommendation:
Take one uninterrupted hour this week to map the true state of your career. No meetings. No inbox. Just you, a pen, and the question: If I stopped trying to be the ideal employee, what would I do next?


💭 Closing Thought:
31% of employees leave within six months—not for lack of skill, but due to poor onboarding, unclear duties, or bad management.

And 32% hesitate to pivot because they’re unsure what’s next, not because they can’t do the work. That’s not a skills issue. That’s a leadership mindset issue—starting with your own.

 

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