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What Does Alignment Look Like in Your Career?

Apr 22, 2025
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We throw around the word alignment a lot in the professional world—but what does it actually look like? More importantly, what does it feel like?

Not in theory.
Not in a values statement.
But in the lived experience of your day-to-day work?

If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve already outgrown a version of success that once fit. Maybe you’ve ticked all the boxes, climbed the ladder, built the brand, and proved yourself ten times over. And yet—something’s off. You’re tired in a way that rest doesn’t fix. You’re questioning in a way that strategy alone can’t solve.

That’s not failure. That’s a signal.
That’s your soul tapping you on the shoulder.

Because when your outer success stops matching your inner truth, it creates a drag. The climb gets heavier. The “shoulds” get louder. The spark gets quieter. And hustle starts to feel more like hiding.

That’s where alignment comes in—not as a buzzword, but as a compass.

Alignment Isn’t About Having It All Figured Out
It’s about telling the truth.

It’s about letting go of roles you’ve outgrown, identities you’ve over-identified with, and strategies that were designed to earn approval, not express vision.


Alignment in your career might look like:

Saying no to the role that looks good on paper but feels hollow in your gut.

Asking for what you actually need, instead of what you think is "reasonable."

Leading with clarity, not just competence.

Leaving the table you’ve been trying to earn a seat at, and building your own.

Redefining growth not as doing more, but becoming more yourself.

Alignment Feels Like:
Spaciousness in your body, even when the calendar is full.

A quiet confidence that doesn’t need to be proven.

Energy returning, not just on weekends or vacations, but in the middle of your workday.

Fewer existential “what am I doing with my life?” spirals. More grounded, this is who I am, in moments.

Clarity—not in every step, but in the direction.


But let’s be real: Alignment can also feel messy.

Sometimes, it looks like pulling back before stepping forward. Like quitting a job without a five-year plan. Like grieving a version of you that worked so hard to get here, only to realize she doesn’t want this anymore.

That’s not failure either.
That’s recalibration.

It’s not about certainty—it’s about integrity.

So, What Does Alignment Look Like This Season?
Not someday. Not when it’s perfect.
Now.

Start here:

What’s working for you right now—and what’s just working you over?

Where are you over-functioning to compensate for something you’re not aligned with?


📚 ONE RECOMMENDATION

Ask yourself, what does alignment look like in this season?

Not someday. Not when it’s perfect.

Now.

Start here:

  • What’s working for you right now, and what’s just working you over?
  • Where are you over-functioning to compensate for something you’re not aligned with?
  • What decision would you make if you trusted your inner wisdom more than your fear of disappointing others?

đź’¬ CLOSING THOUGHT
You don’t need to overhaul your entire life tomorrow.

But you do deserve a career that feels as good on the inside as it looks from the outside.

What decision would you make if you trusted your inner wisdom more than your fear of disappointing others?

You don’t need to overhaul your life tomorrow. But you do deserve to lead a career that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.

Because when you lead from alignment, you don’t just grow, you become.

 

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